Never reach out your hand unless you're willing to extend an arm.
- Elizabeth Fuller
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on a little boat to Amapala |
A couple of weeks ago, I finally got my much-needed Mommy time! Things were off to a rough start, beginning with the airline losing Mom's bags, but us Grassos made the best of our week together and we ended up having an awesome time!
The next morning after Mom arrived, we woke up at the crack of dawn to catch our flight to Roatan (an island off the north coast of Honduras). We had everything booked, including the canopy tour and scuba diving lessons and were scheduled to stay at a beautiful resort in a beach side cabana. Well... all of this changed when we "missed" our flight. I put that in quotes because if you have ever heard of TACA airlines, you know that things run depending on their mood that day. Our flight was at 8:30am so naturally, for any 2 hour domestic flight, we arrived at 7:30, which is also what the airline recommended. Well nothing was open yet and the information desk told us that the TACA desk opens at 8. Well I wasn't surprised considering a few weeks prior my friend couldn't check in for his TACA flight until about 10 minutes before his departure so I sort of expected this nonsense. What I didn't expect was being told that our plane was already out on the runway at 8:10 when the desk finally opened! They nonchalantly told us we missed our flight and I just looked at them in disbelief.
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just under the Picacho statue |
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Well we came to find that our missing the flight was actually an omen and we were never meant to go to Roatan in the first place! While in the airport we heard about Hurricane Matthew from a friend of mine and suddenly we weren't so upset about missing our little 19-seater plane to the island. Needless to say, the weather was pretty dreary for the next week but the rain did not hold us back from visiting Picacho, the national park at the top of a mountain in Tecgus, on Friday. Saturday we made the trek to Valle de Angeles, a cute little town about 40 minutes away, where we did some shopping and had a true Honduran lunch- catrachas and baleadas! Mom was most amazed by the electrical set up this country has- the power lines seem far from safe, hanging down into the streets in some parts!
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this is nothing- electrical wires will actually hang down resting on people's fences... real safe
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street-side "vendors" |
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Mom trying some Honduran beer |
It was a beautiful ride to Valle and it was so great to be able to show Mom the countryside of Honduras.
The next day we hung out at the hotel and had a total spa day together. We hung out in the sauna and the steam room and we each had a full body massage... yes, it was heavenly. Mom laughed as she told me afterward that she couldn't even understand the woman when she told her to roll over- the masseuse had to resort to hand motions for my non-Spanish speaking mother!
Later that week we took a trip down to the southern shore of Honduras to go across to Amapala on La Isla El Tigre. We woke up bright and early to begin our 4-hour trek down there and the trip was far from boring! First of all, the way people drive here is absolutely insane. You can count on one hand how many traffic lights there are in Tegus and no one listens to them anyway- they are simply recommendations. So beginning with the taxi ride in morning traffic was quite entertaining, but not as entertaining as when we pulled up to the bus stop and men surrounded our car, pressing up against the windows and yelling "A dónde van? A dónde van?" Where are you going? and they practically pulled us out of the cab to get us to go one one their buses. We were carried by the crowd toward the bus that we hoped was headed to Coyolito. Mom just kept saying "You should check with that man. You should just ask again to make sure!"
We finally made it down to Coyolito, but of course not without hurdling through a few obstacles on the way. First of all, keep in mind that it was POURING out this entire day since Hurricane Matthew was hitting the north end of the country. And the buses are far from tranquil. You are constantly thrown around due to the potholes and there are people always yelling and babies crying, no one wearing seat belts. Mom's favorite part was that at each stop, more people would board the bus and walk through the isle holding their merchandise- bags of beans, plantains, ears of corn... she loved being in the middle of all the commotion. I think it really made her felt like she was experiencing the real Honduras.
The rain continued and when we got off the bus in Coyolito we were soaked through in a matter of seconds and we could not find a place to go to the bathroom! We finally found some women in their quaint little restaurant and we practically begged them to use their bathroom. They kept using this one word to describe their bathroom that I could not understand and eventually they explained that the toilet was for "solo pee pee, no poo poo". We understood right away when we saw the pot in the floor. Mom had a good laugh. If she hadn't realized before, she knew in that moment that she was not in Connecticut anymore!!
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soaked and sad that we can't see the top of the mountain |
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five star bathroom in Coyolito |
Since we were already soaked we decided to keep going and take the "ferry" out to the island. This ferry turned out to be the size of a little row boat with a motor on the back. Luckily the water was fairly calm. The sweet driver took us to the opposite side of the island where we docked on Playa Grande. During the ride, he pointed out the islands of Nicaragua and El Salvador that we could see. It was such an incredible self-affirming feeling to be sitting in that little boat at sea level and to be surrounded by these immense mountains and volcanic islands. You really realize how small you are and how beautiful the earth is in a moment like that. We docked in Amapala, this small fishing community, and as when we pulled up to the beach, fisherman were cutting up fish and stingrays right on the surf. We watched in awe as these men and boys hacked away at these fish with machetes and no gloves. We went into a little hut restaurant right on the beach. The woman brought us right inside to her quaint kitchen and opened the freezer and told us to pick what we wanted. She cooked up some amazing jumbo shrimp, lobster tails, and fish fillets, all bathed in a delicious butter sauce. As we ate, we observed the boat loads of fish coming in and the boys playing soccer on the beach, with sticks planted in the ground to mark the goals.
On our way back to the mainland, our boatman pointed out his home to us and told us how he doesn't know how to drive a car- he makes his living fishing around the island and driving his boat. I got his number and my friends and I are going to go back and stay on this island for a weekend. It is truly an escape- from everything.
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freshly-caught stingrays |
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too bad we couldn't see the peak but still unbelievably gorgeous |
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The rest of the week was great with Mom. She spent a lot of time with me at the apartment so she really got a feel for my daily living and work space. Everyone I live with loved her and called her Mom, just like all my friends back home. They were shocked by how alike we were! We took her out at night to one of our favorite spots- Sabor Cubano and there Mom learned how to salsa dance! She was laughing at herself the entire time- we all had a ball.
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hanging out at Sabor Cubano- Mom fit right in! |
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Danny teaching Mom some salsa technique |
It was a bittersweet goodbye when Mom had to leave- we had many great dinners together, bar nights in the hotel lobby, and late nights watching Grey's Anatomy in our comfy king size bed at the Marriot (yes they have nice hotels here!). I'll miss her dearly but I think we can get by talking to each other 3 times a day like usual (thank God for Skype!) and she will surely be back again. She is hoping to meet up with me Panama at some point when I have to renew my Visa.
It was so great to teach Mom about another culture. She sparked in my interest in foreign communities when she started bringing the family across seas for her business trips and now I am teaching her about another world.
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xoxo |